tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3472946942076519860.post7019117829779304778..comments2023-05-28T08:53:52.124-07:00Comments on Not Your Regular Mini Van Mom: The GuiltNot Your Regular Mini Van Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15015428820505693930noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3472946942076519860.post-87664425647785645642009-01-12T04:58:00.000-08:002009-01-12T04:58:00.000-08:00There's no single answer. Funny thing is, there's ...There's no single answer. Funny thing is, there's not many working (paid! ok?) mums who manage to blog as well.<BR/><BR/>You must be doing better than you think!<BR/><BR/>My tactic is to try not to multi-task. If it's work hours, I work. If it's mum-time, enjoy it. I've not given myself time for guilt so I CAN'T focus on that.Sasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13697836741843809088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3472946942076519860.post-49349604802427720182009-01-12T04:07:00.000-08:002009-01-12T04:07:00.000-08:00I decided last year to take the year off! Just got...I decided last year to take the year off! Just got to graduate school, and hang with my boys. It will help a little when we move in June and I go back to work!SabrinaThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10347329403278847816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3472946942076519860.post-54811768583537713282009-01-08T16:46:00.000-08:002009-01-08T16:46:00.000-08:00You described my life for many, many years! Three ...You described my life for many, many years! Three years ago, I finally decided it wasn't functioning, and I cut back on my work. I am lucky that I had that option, and for me it's been the right decision. I am my own boss, so I was able to reduce the workload more easily than many might.<BR/>Now, I have more time for my boys, more time for my husband, and more time for ME! <BR/>I wish you the best of luck with your situation, and hope eventually you will be able to find some balance that works for you and your family. :)<BR/><BR/>HeidiFamily Adventurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00093360285075029799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3472946942076519860.post-16855530657411787212009-01-08T07:00:00.000-08:002009-01-08T07:00:00.000-08:00Wow, that's a busy day! Do you do this every day?...Wow, that's a busy day! Do you do this every day? Can you devote certain days of the week to working? <BR/><BR/>I think women are just built to feel guilty. Totally sucks.Amy Urquharthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17011605158544190413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3472946942076519860.post-83805851778622092602009-01-07T08:39:00.000-08:002009-01-07T08:39:00.000-08:00I think there will be guilt no matter what we do a...I think there will be guilt no matter what we do as moms.<BR/><BR/>I am a full time SAHM and I feel guilty that I'm not spending enough QUALITY time with my kids, that I'm not preparing healthy enough dishes, that I'm not volunteering at their school enough, that I'm not the best wife I could be....<BR/><BR/>I could go on and on with that list. But I try to do the best I can and realize that no matter what I do, I'm always going to feel like it's not good enough.<BR/><BR/>So I guess, hang in there and enjoy the ride!Beth Cotellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14536268080265726705noreply@blogger.com